Stop bullying in school

How to stop bullying at school, what can parents do

If your child is being bullied at school, contact the school. The school should be the first point of contact. It is very important for the parent and the school to work on the problem together

schools have the responsibility to manage and prevent bullying in school and to provide a safe place for our children to learn.

It is important that you make an appointment with the school( don’t just show up) making an appointment will get you time for a conference.

Things you can do when scheduling an appointment

1. Explain to staff what you need to discuss focusing on what is happening to your child.

2. Work with their teacher, the person that knows your child best.

3. Write down everything that has/is happening to your child, dates and times, and any witnesses you may know about. (Remember you may not know everything that happened yet or any of the facts.)

4. Be clear about what you think that a good outcome should be for your child and think about the steps that should be taken to help your child get there.

5. Find out what the guidelines are for your child school on bullying. (The anti-bullying policy should be on the school website.

6. Be aware that the school can do so much, be realistic.

7. Be respectful and stay calm don’t get aggressive with the other parents or staff,( You have all the right to be upset) it really is natural to feel frustrated distressed and angry.

8. If you have a past history with bullying yourself, try discussing this with a counselor or a friend you can trust, first, before going to your appointment, this could help you stay calm. advice

for more advice on stopping the bullying at school.

Bullying hurts and kills innocent people

look for signs that your child may be having problems at school.

Speak to your child and let them know if they are being bullied at school for them to find someone they feel comfortable and trust to tell that they are being bullied, let them know that what is happening is not their fault and not to be afraid to tell someone, let them know that they will be protected.

By Miriam

my name is Miriam Mendoza, I live in Bakersfield California I was born in Ogden Utah, February 6 I am married to Felipe Mendoza


  1. I love your site topic. Bullying is something that should be taken very seriously. Words do hurt and they affect you in more ways then a lot of people realize. My daughter was bullied and we had to go to the principal about it. Of course, he dealt with it but the lasting effect it had on my daughter’s self-esteem is upsetting. I wish some schools did more with the topic but I guess it depends on the school. Thanks for talking about this subject, too many children are being bullied.

    1. Thank you for your comment. I was bullied as a child by my mother as well as at school. not to long ago I learned my grand daughter was being bullied at school so I decided that I wanted to start a website on the need to stop the bullying. it breaks my heart to know a child has been or is being bullied. I found some pretty cool videos that I want to add to my site but I’m still learning. but it will be soon.

  2. We all need to hear this in today’s time and age, especially what is going on out there at the moment. We all need to equip our kids to not fall into this trap and have a confident and problem solving approach to get help if needed.

    Thank you

  3. I agree with you Miriam. We need to build a good base in our future generation and eliminate bullying as much as possible. Just like you, I know know what it feels like to be bullied. And we don’t want anyone else to go through the same experience.
    All my love and best wishes to you.

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